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The History of BDSM

The Kama Sutra, compiled between 400 BCE and 200 CE in India, is often misunderstood as just a sex manual. In truth, it’s a sophisticated treatise on relationships and pleasure. It includes chapters on biting, scratching, slapping, and other forms of erotic stimulation.  Crucially, it discusses mutual enjoyment, consent, and the understanding that not all acts are pleasurable for all participants—making it one of the earliest known texts to explore consent in erotic play.

Saturday Star News
Sharon Gordon|Updated

Why every working mother needs short-term insurance to safeguard her family's future

Protecting the protectors: The vital role of short-term insurance for working mothers.

Business Advice
Staff Reporter|Published

What to do when your needs are not being met in a relationship

Whether it’s more emotional support, intimacy, alone time, affection, or help with responsibilities, unmet needs don’t automatically mean the relationship is doomed.  It may be an invitation to re-evaluate, communicate, and grow—both individually and together. Here’s how to approach it step-by-step.  Clarify the Nature of the Need: Want or Non-Negotiable? Before bringing the issue to your partner, it’s crucial to assess your own expectations.

Saturday Star News
Sharon Gordon|Published

Say goodbye to blackheads: Your ultimate guide

Discover effective strategies to understand and eliminate blackheads, one of the most common forms of acne.

Lifestyle Style Beauty
Gerry Cupido|Published

How supermarkets manipulate your shopping habits

Discover the psychological tricks supermarkets use to boost your spending and learn effective strategies to resist temptation while shopping.

Lifestyle
Gerry Cupido|Published

My dad died when I was 13 – this is how I healed

Spending years hiding from the pain doesn’t mean it goes away. It's still there festering under the surface, says Kamil Ravin

The Post Features
Kamil Ravin|Updated

Every bunny needs some bunny: A tale of tails, vibes and vibrating eggs

The Rabbit Hole of Happiness First things first—let’s talk rabbits. No, not the garden-munching kind or your cousin’s fluffy rescue bunny named Mr. Snuggles. We’re talking about the iconic rabbit vibrator, the legendary dual-action device made famous by that one unforgettable episode of Sex and the City. (Yes, that episode—Charlotte practically moved in with hers. )

Saturday Star News
Sharon Gordon|Published

Impress your guests with these last-minute Easter cooking ideas

Running out of time to prepare for your Easter feast? Discover simple cooking tips that will impress your guests and ensure a delightful holiday celebration, right from your kitchen!

Lifestyle Food
Lutho Pasiya|Published

Easter escapes: immerse yourself in South Africa’s best books for a literary adventure

Whether you're reading alone or sharing stories with loved ones, these books promise to enhance your Easter experience, offering a mix of laughter, tears, and insightful reflections.

Entertainment Books
Lutho Pasiya|Published

Essential breakfast tips for effective muscle building

Discover how your breakfast choices can make or break your muscle-building efforts.

Lifestyle Health
Gerry Cupido|Published

The gross reasons why you should always wash new clothes before wearing them

Excited about your new clothes? Before you wear them, discover why washing them first is crucial for your health and safety.

Lifestyle Health
Gerry Cupido|Published

Why the Lazy Cat Cake is purring its way into every kitchen

Indulge in the latest viral baking trend! Discover why the lazy cat cake is delighting foodies everywhere with its layers of flavour and simplicity. Perfect for any occasion, this easy-to-make dessert brings joy and sweetness to your kitchen without the fuss!

Lifestyle Food
Lutho Pasiya|Published

Beauty isn't one-size-fits-all: bridging the cosmetic procedure gap between fair and melanin-rich skin

As beauty trends continue to be shaped by social media, many are turning to cosmetic surgery in pursuit of an ideal. But what works for one skin type may not work for another.

Lifestyle Style Beauty Beauty
Vuyile Madwantsi|Published

What not to wear on a flight: Tips for comfortable air travel

Discover the clothing choices that can make your journey uncomfortable or even risky, and learn how to travel in style and comfort.

Travel Travel Tips
Gerry Cupido|Published

The surprising health benefits of dark chocolate

Discover how dark chocolate, made from cacao seeds, is not only a delectable treat but also a powerhouse of nutrients and antioxidants that can enhance your health.

Lifestyle Health
Gerry Cupido|Published

Tips on how to make traditional South African pickled fish for Easter

Discover the joy of preparing South Africa's beloved pickled fish, a traditional dish perfect for Easter.

Lifestyle Food
Gerry Cupido|Published

From awareness to acceptance: transforming the autism dialogue one conversation at a time

April marks Autism Awareness and Acceptance Month, prompting reflection on the progress and challenges faced by autistic individuals in South Africa.

Lifestyle Health
Vuyile Madwantsi|Published

Facial hair, firm commitment: why bearded men are better long-term partners

Discover how beards may indicate a man's readiness for long-term commitment in relationships, backed by scientific research and psychological insights.

Lifestyle Love Sex Relationships
Vuyile Madwantsi|Published

Feeling weak? Uncover the sneaky signs of protein deficiency you can’t afford to ignore

When we fail to eat protein rich foods, our bodies eventually run out of these nutrients. And when that happens, it sometimes shows in ways we wouldn't otherwise expect.

Lifestyle Health
Vuyile Madwantsi|Published

Save money on groceries: Effective strategies for the budget-conscious shopper

Her are effective strategies to cut your grocery bills without compromising on quality or nutrition.

Lifestyle
Gerry Cupido|Published

Elevate your plate: expert tricks to turn basic ingredients into superfoods

Incorporating these expert-approved food pairings into your daily diet can enhance nutrient absorption and support your overall health.

Lifestyle Food
Lutho Pasiya|Published

Making sex better: A guide to more pleasure and less performance pressure

Sex isn’t a talent show. There’s no panel of judges scoring you on technique, flexibility, or artistic interpretation. The only thing that matters is enjoyment—yours and your partner’s. Instead of worrying about how you look, sound, or whether you're  meeting some imaginary “gold standard,” focus on what feels good. More pleasure, less pressure.

Saturday Star News
Sharon Gordon|Published

Eat smart, live long: surprising diets that hold the key to longevity

In a world obsessed with miracle supplements and high-tech gadgets, the quest for longevity often leads us to look for complex solutions. But what if the secret to a longer, healthier life lies in the simple everyday foods we consume?

Lifestyle Health
Vuyile Madwantsi|Published

Rise and shine: Cape Town influencer's morning secrets for reclaiming your vitality

Afa Slarms, a Cape Town influencer, encourages her followers to break free from mundane routines and embrace vitality through invigorating morning rituals.

Lifestyle Health
ZamaNdosi Cele|Published

Still swiping: how 'Covid Kids' are finding love in a post-lockdown world

The 'Covid kids' as they have been dubbed, are struggling with an array of social anxieties that have dramatically reshaped their approach to in-person connections.

Lifestyle Love Sex Relationships
Alyssia Birjalal|Published